Ive just been thinkin

Soo yall know my cancel culture vid right? I talked abt the 3 types of ppl i think who deserve cancellation.

I think cancel culture should be permanent likr if u get canceled u should never return

n i feel like alot of ppl who have been canceled have been uncancelled (whether or not they deserve it)

some ppl have been uncancelled because our society looks back n is like "why did we cancel them for them" or something like that.

like cancel culture is a very AGGRESSIVE way to TEMPORARILY get rid of someone.

so I'm thinking that again cancel culture should be reserved for certain individuals and should be PERMANANT

soooo whats the default solution?

how do you hold a public figure accountable?

one thing is for sure you have to be DEMANDING or LOUD they have to feel like they did something wrong or will they even respond? 

however that doesnt mean we should be HARASSING THEM or being a BULLY

because not everyone remembers EVERY BAD THING THEY DID ON THE INTERNET!

sometimes i look at my old posts and im like "....why did i say that🧍‍♀️"

and you dont know if someone has grown or changed unless you know them personally n lets b honest.... no one knows their faves personally

so this is obviously not perfect AT ALL but its what i can think of right now.

1. call it out, what did this person do? this addresses the problem
2. question, why? why did they do it? i feel like questioning ALLOWS THE PERSON TO PROVIDE A RESPONSE RATHER THEN JUST BANISHING THEM N NEVER KNOWING THAT SIDE OF THE STORY

i feel like many ppl may say to add educating, however unless if its a NICHE topic theres no point in educating sometimes. like EVERYONE  knows its bad to discriminate against ppls gender, race, skin n etc, i dont need to "educate" ppl on why thats wrong some of this stuff is just common sense

also what the person being called out should understand is that they should apologize, take accountability and move on, dont dwell just move on and prove to everyone that your not that person, and les say it was something you did a while ago and U know ur not that person, then move along 

of course depend on how offesive u were their may be some  ppl that are still upset and they have a right to feel that way but if you know that you have changed, dont adress it and move along

ana psychology has a great video on this topic but i think the video got deleted

anyways i know my "solution" is NOT perfect n im sure their are loop holes but its what i can think of atm