YALL

 parasocial relationships ARE NOT INHERITANTLY BAD

a HEALTHY parasocial is ACTUALLY normal (im sure EVERYONE has at least one), it could even be a work/school crush, who doesnt know who you are.

It becomes an issue when you act as if you DO know them and cross BOUNDARIES 

This is when its bad

MANY parasocial relationships are obsessive

everyone should like the art not the artist, like i said in my stan culture video.

But even if you LOVE the art only

You will have an idea of the artist in your mind.

But its important to not let that idea take over your mind and make you obsessive and transform you into a stan 

because its a parasocial relationship

You dont know this person.